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Ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i \u0111ã tr\u1edf thành m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng pháp sàng l\u1ecdc \u1ee9ng viên ngày càng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t là khi có tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian và kho\u1ea3ng cách \u0111\u1ecba lý. Nh\u01b0ng không ph\u1ea3i vì không g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng mà b\u1ea1n không g\u1eb7p khó kh\u0103n, mà hoàn toàn ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t chút s\u01a1 sót nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng có th\u1ec3 làm h\u1ecfng cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Vì v\u1eady, hãy c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tránh m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u sau \u0111ây.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng lao \u0111\u1ed9ng, chuy\u00ean m\u1ee5c nh\u00e2n s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a CareerLink hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u0103ng kho\u1ea3ng 921 tin tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng, m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn dao \u0111\u1ed9ng 7-100 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng t\u00f9y c\u1ea5p b\u1eadc v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m. Danh s\u00e1ch vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ng\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n s\u1ef1<\/a> l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n tham kh\u1ea3o h\u1eefu \u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i chi\u1ebfu k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n

Th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n trong không gian \u1ed3n ào<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hãy chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n b\u1eb1ng cách \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o m\u1ed9t không gian yên t\u0129nh, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t là trong phòng riêng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n và khóa c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i. Tuy nhiên, \u0111i\u1ec1u này không có ngh\u0129a là n\u1ebfu máy gi\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n phát ra ti\u1ebfng “bíp” m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n thì t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 hy v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd tan bi\u1ebfn, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n càng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c tìm m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i càng yên t\u0129nh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd càng t\u1eadp trung h\u01a1n và kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thành công c\u0169ng s\u1ebd cao h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Nói quá nhanh và quá nhi\u1ec1u<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hãy nói ch\u1eadm, th\u1eadm chí ch\u1eadm h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n nói trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c. Nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng s\u1ebd không th\u1ec3 nhìn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngôn ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, vì v\u1eady vi\u1ec7c theo k\u1ecbp thông tin c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khó kh\u0103n h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng nên d\u1eebng m\u1ed9t chút tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 câu h\u1ecfi nào. Không có ngôn ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, không có cách nào \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft li\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n b\u1ea1n có th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft thúc l\u1eddi nói c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd hay ch\u01b0a. B\u1eb1ng cách ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tránh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c c\u1eaft ngang l\u1eddi nói c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Bên c\u1ea1nh \u0111ó, b\u1ea1n nên nói càng ít, càng ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn càng t\u1ed1t. B\u1ea1n càng ít nói và càng l\u1eafng nghe, cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i s\u1ebd càng có hi v\u1ecdng. \u0110\u1eebng r\u01a1i vào cái “b\u1eaby” cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n nói th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1n phù h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi công vi\u1ec7c ra sao.<\/p>\n

Làm vi\u1ec7c \u0111a nhi\u1ec7m<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n có th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 làm m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c khác bên ngoài danh sách vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n làm trong khi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng có th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 dàng bi\u1ebft li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n có \u0111ang hoàn toàn t\u1eadp trung vào cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i hay không. Nhi\u1ec1u nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng chia s\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111ã nghe \u1ee9ng viên r\u1eeda bát, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, mua s\u1eafm… trong khi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. Không c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nói, \u0111i\u1ec1u này không cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 quan tâm và nhi\u1ec7t tình c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u1ecb trí mà b\u1ea1n ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ec1n l\u01b0\u01a1ng quá s\u1edbm<\/strong><\/p>\n

Có th\u1ec3 bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i này là l\u1ea7n trao \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ea7u tiên c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng và \u0111ây không ph\u1ea3i là th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m thích h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 nói v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng gì b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n có v\u1ebb quan tâm nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 bao nhiêu so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c tìm hi\u1ec3u xem b\u1ea1n có phù h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi vai trò \u0111ó không, thì ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n không ph\u1ea3i là ng\u01b0\u1eddi mà nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng tìm ki\u1ebfm. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n là m\u1ed9t \u1ee9ng viên tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi và có s\u1ee9c thu hút v\u1edbi nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nói rõ v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng gì mà b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp sau này.<\/p>\n

S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng quá nhi\u1ec1u các t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5p th\u1eddi gian<\/strong><\/p>\n

Có th\u1ec3 nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng s\u1ebd không \u0111\u1ec3 ý khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng các t\u1eeb nh\u01b0 “um”, “gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 là…” trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp b\u1edfi khi \u0111ó h\u1ecd b\u1eadn quan tâm \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 khác nh\u01b0 cách \u0103n m\u1eb7c ho\u1eb7c ngôn ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t h\u1ecd chú ý là nh\u1eefng gì b\u1ea1n nói và cách b\u1ea1n nói. Nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec7m này ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng không làm n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt thông \u0111i\u1ec7p b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n nói mà còn khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n trông có v\u1ebb nhút nhát và thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin. Do \u0111ó, hãy l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf chúng kh\u1ecfi l\u1eddi nói c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n càng s\u1edbm càng t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1m d\u1eebng cu\u1ed9c g\u1ecdi<\/strong><\/p>\n

Các cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di\u1ec5n ra không quá lâu, và có l\u1ebd không có \u0111i\u1ec1u gì khác c\u1ea5p bách x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1m d\u1eebng cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a mình. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng tin t\u1ee9c c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p (nh\u01b0 thông tin v\u1ec1 b\u1ec7nh tình c\u1ee7a ai \u0111ó trong gia \u0111ình), hãy nói \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111ó trong nh\u1eefng phút \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tình hu\u1ed1ng và nh\u1edd v\u1eady b\u1ea1n có th\u1ec3 làm vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 lên l\u1ecbch l\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 gián \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111ó x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n

B\u1ecf qua ph\u1ea7n h\u1ecfi và tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi<\/strong><\/p>\n

G\u1ea7n k\u1ebft thúc m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, th\u01b0\u1eddng thì b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ee3i ý \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t câu h\u1ecfi v\u1edbi nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng. Khi \u0111ó, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n luôn luôn \u0111\u01b0a ra câu h\u1ecfi. N\u1ebfu không b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd phá h\u1ecfng toàn b\u1ed9 cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. B\u1edfi r\u1eb1ng nói “không” cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n không quan tâm \u0111\u1ebfn công vi\u1ec7c. M\u1eb7c dù trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf không ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nào nhà tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n có h\u1ee9ng thú v\u1edbi công vi\u1ec7c, hãy ngh\u0129 ra \u0111i\u1ec1u gì \u0111ó \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n.<\/p>\n

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